Ever wondered why we become obsessed with some people. Well definitely I am not talking about love. Let us first unravel the obsession part as why we have this delusion that we are in love and categorize such people.
- Everyone is beautiful on this planet. The only difference is how we all carry ourselves. So where does the first category stands. Suppose a person not being in good condition, due to any reasons, in terms of education, finance or may be in looks, comes across to a person of opposite sex who is totally poles apart from him/her, creates a desire and the realization of being getting unnoticed which further creates an obsession which is not infatuation or even love.
- The second category includes those people who have always been pampered by others, lived as a center of attraction, and on getting cold shouldered response triggers a stored procedure called Ego which transmutes that person becoming obsessed with an only goal in life to crush the Ego of the other person.
- The third category comes when a person being a flirt or may be a philanderer & on getting his proposal being refused creates an obsession and a sense of feeling of insult within him. And that is purely a bad notion.
- The fourth one includes those who have good, submissive character, may be approached by many but they look for the 'one' in their life and when being rejected by that 'one', well this may sound wrong but they too become obsessed.
Thence, what's love? If the base of a building is weak, even if you make the tallest building, it will fall apart. So, true love is the one which has a strong base. Doesn't matter how it starts or ends, there is always a mutual acceptance, understanding, maturity, realization of feeling from contemplation with zero opportunism.
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